Eloping, Made Easy
Okay, let’s be real…planning a wedding (even a tiny, intimate one) can feel like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle. You’re dreaming of a romantic, stress-free elopement but somehow, even that feels overwhelming.
Breathe. I’ve got you.
Eloping isn’t about following rules, it’s about creating a day that feels exactly right for you. No stress, no obligations. Just you, your person, and a whole lot of magic.
Let’s break it down step by step (and check out my massive and very detailed Ultimate Guide to Planning Your Minnesota Elopement for more info!).
Start with What Actually Matters (Hint: It’s Not the Flowers)
Forget the logistics for a second. Before you even think about locations or outfits, ask yourselves:
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- What moments do we want to remember forever?
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- Where do we feel happiest? Is it by the ocean, in the mountains, under city lights?
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- Do we want something adventurous or something cozy and quiet?
Your elopement should feel like you. Whether that means saying vows on a mountaintop at sunrise or in your backyard with your dog as the witness, it’s all about what makes your hearts do a happy dance.
Pick a Location That Feels Like Home
Your location sets the vibe for your elopement story. Picture this: wind in your hair on a rugged coastline, golden light pouring over rolling hills, or the peaceful silence of a forest at dawn. Sounds dreamy, right?
Tips for picking the perfect spot:
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- Think about the season because surprise blizzards aren’t fun…unless you’re into that which, in this case, shout out to you!
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- Check if you need permits (yes, even nature has paperwork).
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- Consider accessibility. Will you be hiking or do you want an easy stroll to your spot?
And if you have no clue where to start? Don’t stress! I love location scouting and can help you find the perfect spot. If you’d like to get a jump on things, check out The Best Places to Elope in Minnesota here!
Ditch Perfection & Focus on the Feels
Repeat after me: My elopement is not a Pinterest board.
Some of the best moments happen when things don’t go perfectly. Maybe the wind tangles your hair. Maybe your partner forgets their vows and has to ad-lib something ridiculously sweet. Maybe you get a little dirt on your dress walking to your ceremony spot.
Guess what? That’s the good stuff. That’s what makes your day yours.
Build a Dream Team (AKA: People Who Actually Get You)
Even if you’re keeping things small, having the right people around you makes a world of difference. Whether it’s an officiant, a private chef for a cozy post-ceremony dinner, or a photographer (hi, that’s me!), pick vendors who feel like friends.
I’m not just here to snap pretty pictures. I’m here to:
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- Help you plan a joy-filled, stress-free elopement.
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- Scout the best locations and timeline options for the best lighting situations.
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- Capture all the in-between, emotional, laughter-filled moments that you’ll remember for years to come.
Basically, I’ve got your back.
Create a Timeline But Keep It Loose and Stress-Free
Elopements are all about freedom, but having a rough plan helps things flow smoothly. Think of it as a “choose your own adventure” guide rather than a strict schedule.
Example of a relaxed elopement timeline:
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- Wake up slow, have coffee together.
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- Hike to your ceremony spot (or take a scenic drive).
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- Exchange vows as the sun sets.
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- Celebrate with a picnic, champagne, or a cozy dinner.
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- Dance under the stars (yes, even if it’s just swaying in the moonlight).
Leave space for spontaneity. Some of the best moments happen when you least expect them.
Pack Smart, Not Heavy
No need to bring your entire closet, but a little preparation goes a long way.
Must-haves for a stress-free elopement:
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- Comfy shoes (because nobody wants to walk in stilettos all day).
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- Layers: You never know when the weather might pull a fast one.
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- Vow books or letters to each other.
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- Snacks + hydration (no hangry vows, please).
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- Any special keepsakes that make the day feel you.
Be Present. Seriously.
This is your day. Forget about the camera, the details, or what your hair is doing. Hold hands. Laugh. Take deep breaths. Let yourself feel everything…the weight of this moment, the love between you, the way your partner looks at you like you’re the most incredible person in the world.
Because you are.
Let Me Handle the Rest
Planning an elopement should feel exciting, not stressful. That’s where I come in.
From location scouting to timeline planning, I’ll be there every step of the way, helping you create a day that’s effortless, joyful, and completely yours. No forced poses, no stress. Just real, raw, beautiful moments captured forever.
Ready to start planning your dream elopement? Let’s chat! Contact me here and let’s make it happen.
FAQs: Because You’ve Probably Got Questions
1. How far in advance should we plan our elopement?
You can plan an elopement in a few weeks or a year in advance. It’s up to you! The biggest factor is location (some spots require permits months ahead).
2. Do we need a permit for our elopement location?
If you’re eloping in a national park, state park, or protected area, you probably need one. But don’t worry, I’ll help you figure out all the details!
3. What if the weather is bad?
We roll with it! Rain, wind, and snow can actually make for epic photos. But we’ll always have a backup plan just in case.
4. Can we invite a few guests?
Absolutely! Elopements can be just the two of you, or you can have a handful of your favorite people there to celebrate. I typically photograph elopements with up to 25 guests.
5. What should we wear?
Whatever makes you feel amazing! Flowing dresses, cozy layers, fun accessories. Just make sure you’re comfortable and dressed for the elements.
6. How long until we get our photos?
I send sneak peeks within a week, and your full gallery will be ready within 8 weeks.
Your elopement is about you, your love, your adventure, your story. No stress. No pressure. Just a day filled with love, laughter, and memories that’ll last forever.
Sound like your vibe?
Let’s make it happen!
Hi! I’m Nuku and I provide planning assistance along with photography coverage for your elopement.
I strongly believe your elopement should be stress-free, beautiful, and 100% you. If you’re ready to slow down and create an unforgettable experience, I’d love to help!
Get in touch here to start planning!
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Final Thought: No matter how or where you elope, remember to slow down, soak in the moment, and celebrate your love. Your day is about you two—nothing else matters.
